In order to better understand why your .fr is still not available, despite all your (and our) best efforts, we feel it would be beneficial to give you some help in interpreting the statistics published freely by AFNIC: http://open.nic.fr/
June 20th 2006, AFNIC (the registry in charge of the .FR TLD will open registration of .FR domain names to individuals 18 and over who reside in France.
No proof of identity will be required, you must simply provide your date of birth, the city in which you live, and the French département in which you were born (indicate 99 if you were born in another country).